Hashem blessed me with a job today. After two months of being jobless, and applying to countless jobs, and getting almost zero responses, and if I got a response, it was no, I finally got a job. It was a long two months, frustrating at times, but I tried, I tried so hard to keep my faith in Hashem, and I admit, it wavered at times, "why is this happening?" "What does Hashem want from me?" etc. It was hard, but then on Thursday, I got a call from somebody I had only met a few times before, and I am not even sure how he got my number. He said that he was leaving, and that I should meet with his boss. I met with the boss the next day Friday, and his boss said now is not a good time, come back on Monday, I did that, and then I was pushed off till Monday afternoon. I came back, we sat down, I thought the meeting went well, and the job is mine on a trial basis. The job is in an industry I never thought I would work in, with responsibilities I never have had before, and I look forward to proving to Hashem, my boss, my new customers and co workers, and of course myself that I can handle it all.
Thank you Hashem for the chessed you have shown me, even though my faith wavered at times. Thank you thank you and Thank you!
Monday, September 10, 2012
Sunday, September 2, 2012
Taking stock
Elul is a time for taking stock of the past year- of recognizing all the good that we did, and those areas where we fell short. Perhaps we (I) may have even done some bad, even truly bad stuff, and not just failed to do good, or better. It is all to often to get caught up in all the areas that we fell short, where we feel that growth wasn't made, or even worse, where we went backwards. For me that list might include the following things:
Since Rosh Hashana 5772 I have failed to make noticeable or discernable improvement in the following areas:
Weightloss
Coming closer to Hashem
Hisbodedut
Being a better Jew
Being a better son
Being a better anything
Not being lazy
Studying the works of Rabbi Nachman of Breslov
Focusing more on Emuna and belief in Hashem
etc.
The list could go on and on, the point is, we often get stuck in a trap where we focus only on what we failed to do; which is what the Yetzer Hara wants from us. He wants us to focus on where we fell short, not because he wants us to get down on ourselves and feel like a loser. However, that is not what Hashem wants, while Hashem wants us to admit where we failed, and be sad that by failing we brought displeasure to Him, He wants us to use those failures as a springboard to growth. However, we still have to admit where we failed, and often admitting, is both the hardest and the first step to real change. How can we change if we can't even admit to where we went wrong? A list of things that I need to do Teshuva for would include the following items:
Not always putting on Tefillin
Not always davening 3x a day, or even 1x a day!
Not always speaking nicely to my wife
Being lazy
Not always having full Emuna
Not having the best concentration when making a before or after Brocha
etc.
Now, while Hashem doesn't want you to feel like a loser, unlike the YH (Yetzer Hara) he does want us to cry at how far we have fallen, and call out to him and say "Daddy I have messed up. I really really want to come home, but I have screwed up so badly that I don't even know the way home. Please help me." After all, a parent really only wants the child to say sorry and admit where he went wrong- at the very least to say sorry!
He also wants us to admit and to realize just all that we got right. This is important to, Rabbi Nachman says we have to recognize the good in everybody, especially ourselves! Some of the things I got right this year include:
Guarding my eyes more (though I admit I have a long way to go on this)
Eating healthier (At times, it is important to celebrate even the small victories, even if you eventually fall, because remembering the small victories will help you get back up again.)
Saying pleasant things to my wife
Learning Torah
etc.
We do Teshuva for the bad, we thank Hashem for allowing us to do all the good we did, and we keep trying. That is what Elul is all about, getting back up once we have fallen down.
Since Rosh Hashana 5772 I have failed to make noticeable or discernable improvement in the following areas:
Weightloss
Coming closer to Hashem
Hisbodedut
Being a better Jew
Being a better son
Being a better anything
Not being lazy
Studying the works of Rabbi Nachman of Breslov
Focusing more on Emuna and belief in Hashem
etc.
The list could go on and on, the point is, we often get stuck in a trap where we focus only on what we failed to do; which is what the Yetzer Hara wants from us. He wants us to focus on where we fell short, not because he wants us to get down on ourselves and feel like a loser. However, that is not what Hashem wants, while Hashem wants us to admit where we failed, and be sad that by failing we brought displeasure to Him, He wants us to use those failures as a springboard to growth. However, we still have to admit where we failed, and often admitting, is both the hardest and the first step to real change. How can we change if we can't even admit to where we went wrong? A list of things that I need to do Teshuva for would include the following items:
Not always putting on Tefillin
Not always davening 3x a day, or even 1x a day!
Not always speaking nicely to my wife
Being lazy
Not always having full Emuna
Not having the best concentration when making a before or after Brocha
etc.
Now, while Hashem doesn't want you to feel like a loser, unlike the YH (Yetzer Hara) he does want us to cry at how far we have fallen, and call out to him and say "Daddy I have messed up. I really really want to come home, but I have screwed up so badly that I don't even know the way home. Please help me." After all, a parent really only wants the child to say sorry and admit where he went wrong- at the very least to say sorry!
He also wants us to admit and to realize just all that we got right. This is important to, Rabbi Nachman says we have to recognize the good in everybody, especially ourselves! Some of the things I got right this year include:
Guarding my eyes more (though I admit I have a long way to go on this)
Eating healthier (At times, it is important to celebrate even the small victories, even if you eventually fall, because remembering the small victories will help you get back up again.)
Saying pleasant things to my wife
Learning Torah
etc.
We do Teshuva for the bad, we thank Hashem for allowing us to do all the good we did, and we keep trying. That is what Elul is all about, getting back up once we have fallen down.
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